Today My Mother was shouting on us means my brother and me because She was saying to go Bank with her ,To go and give some things to relative living here ,But we were denying and said Ma we have our own work we will do it later .At last she said " Tum logon se koi expectation nahi karna chahiye "
We are human being, so off-course there will some expectations from some one who are really closed to you. I don’t think so there is something wrong in this… Right???
But what if your expectations are not completed??? The person from whom you are expecting something is don’t even care about this or doing something purposely ??? That time you get hurt. Your thinking for that person get changed. May be you will not tell this to that person, You will not show the changes in your relation, but back of the mind it will be always there. From next time you will not expect things from that person. Because of this your relation get spoiled. So what should we do???
The answer will be don’t expect anything from any one. Why should we expect? May be that person is right from there point of view, and you are right from your side. And the main thing may be you are expecting from the wrong person 
If that person is really closed to you then tell him when your expectations are not completed, and its really affects on your the personal life and professional life too. And then also that person don’t care then leave it…. Because that person was not your close one.
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