The woman in your life



The woman in your life

The woman in your life

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these
facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family-name

One who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and
that kitchen

One who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that
you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at
her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing
to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
Because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise;

One who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;

One who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in
your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this……

Please appreciate Women !

Comments

Amit said…
Awesome post..Excellent and very real truth of life..Generally all guys want a lady who can earn, can cook like mom, support like sister, decorate bed like girlfrnd blah blah..but noone understands her instincts..Which u have narrated in a very realistic and straight way..
Good post..Keep it up..
indian woman said…
very true...loved this post..keep it up...
ravi said…
Nice and frank thoughts dear
workhard said…
You have an interesting blog and the way you write is pretty good..
Will definitely be back to read more..

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