The Tough Times

No relationship is without negatives. These
negative experiences will play a critical role in the health and longevity of your relationship and sometime it may effect our life .

Intimacy develops over time. It must be grown slowly as we depend our relationship. These means making ourselves vulnerable. Intimacy builds every time we listen attentively to our partner, communicate painful feelings, take a risk in saying we are sorry first, or ask for what we want or need from our other. Unfortunately our best intentions are often meant with resistance. sometime what we want come true and sometime for what we are waiting for a long time break like a shattered glass and broke our inner soul and we are break ,Heart and mind both start fighting still mind won and heart has to lose why so ? Because its too much selfish and mind is not selfish .Still we have to control ourself and try to continue our life ........ When dealing with difficult situations it is important to:

• Take ourself actions and feelings
• Let go of past happenings and focus on the situation at hand
• Remain free of judgment
• Try to stay calm and avoid overreacting
• Openly share information
• Be patient
• Try to remember the fun/good times
• Be ready to compromise

No matter what it is important that you

• Talk together
• Listen to each other
• Resolve conflict (compromise)
• Forgive each other
• Respect each other
• Have fun together
• Be committed to each other
• Love and be loved

“Living the truth in your heart without compromise brings kindness into the world. Attempts at kindness that compromise your heart cause only sadness.”